I love this. I believe I have lived most of my life to try to please others which is different then what God wanted us to do loving others. Pleasing others is giving up your God given destiny to live a life that is dictated by others, their versions of what a Christian,mom,wife etc.... should be. So I've lived a shadow life and I do NOT want my children to live that type of life. So while this video isn't all that I'm talking about it's a glimpse of some of it.